Art of Becoming
A 4-MONTH PROGRAM TO BEING YOUR TRUE AUTHENTIC SELF
How many “hats” or roles do you play? (Mother, Father, Sister, Brother, Daughter, Son, Wife, Husband, Co-Worker, Friend, Boss)
Of these roles, are you the same person while in these roles? Or do you put on one “hat” and become one way and then take that one off and become someone else?
How often do you do that throughout the day? Too many to count?
If you had a party, would you invite all of your friends? Or would you pick and choose which ones to invite since you feel that they wouldn’t all get along? Since one group of friends you are and act one way and with another you are different.
When you walk through the door to your parents house, do you tend to feel like you morph back into being that little kid again? You shrink? Do you have healthy boundaries with your parents? Are you able to speak your truth? Feeling like the “black sheep” of the family? Always on the outside looking in?
I’ll tell you that for myself, being in the “hat” wearing role was exhausting. I didn’t know who I was since I was living my life trying to “be” each of the roles that I played. Changing my behavior, being a people pleaser. Saying “yes” to everything and everyone. Playing a part that everyone wanted me to play or what society thought that role should be. Being a chameleon so to speak. I was doing so much for everyone else, that I put myself on the back burner. I was putting on a happy face, smiling all the while deep down, I was exhausted, frustrated, and down right angry. Angry at myself, angry at others for not noticing, and angry at the world. I didn’t feel safe in my body or in the outside world. I felt that at any moment I would lose control. I was strung so tight.
Then there was this moment, where I said “No!” Probably for the first time in a long time. I cried. Enough was enough. It’s time for me, not in a Selfish way. It’s more self-ish. You stand for you. Claiming your autonomy, your right to say No. Your right to “choose” what you want to do. Awakening the “being” part of you through activation to then actualizing it within yourself. Reclaiming who you truly are. Being your authentic self in every situation.
This 4 month program encompasses all of you. Bringing all of you into self awareness. The Art of Becoming your true nature and purpose.
Meet Deborah, your facilitator.
Deborah has been using her Shamanic gifts her whole life. Her activations, transmissions, drumming and healing modalities have been able to release energy that no longer serves. She has a way of bringing laughter and joy into transforming a difficult situation.
Working with her allows you to “be” yourself. She sees through all of the bullshit, the masks, and the trauma. Whether you’re laughing, crying, screaming, or swearing she’s with you every step of the way. Holding you heart to heart, with compassion, love and a willingness to listen and intuitively able to see the light at the end of your tunnel.
Our Journey
Month 1
UNRAVELING YOU / BACK TO BASICS
Week 1: The Spark
What is the “Spark”? The spark is that moment when the egg and the sperm connected and merged. There’s that split nano second where it does “spark”.
This week’s session clears away everything that was accumulated over the years…to bring you back to that moment of “spark”: that moment where you were your true nature and purpose…being who you are at the soul level. Going back to Soul.
Taking away all the labels that we hold on to. Whether that label is our name, gender, race, socio-economic, brother, sister, mother, father, daughter, son, wife, husband, co-worker, boss, job title, or any other label that you hold on to. Even emotional labels of broken, worthlessness, OCD, etc.
This activation removes the hold these labels have over you, reignites the embers of the original “Spark” for you to step into your True Nature and Purpose with knowingness and Clarity.
Week 2: The Power of No
The Power of No Activation. There have been and are many times where you want to say No, and don’t for fear of hurting others. Or times where you do say No, yet it’s squishy / wishy washy. Still feeling funny about saying it…yet you do and it still doesn’t feel true. Or how many times have you said No, yet it’s wimpy and used in a somewhat of a higher voice? Especially around your kids, spouse, parents, or even your boss?
Activating this Power within you, gives you the autonomy of saying No with authority, from your Hara (deep down in your belly), that when it is spoken, people know you mean No.
Month 2
TRULY SEEING YOURSELF
Week 3: Body Image & Appreciation
How many times have you looked into a mirror and really looked at yourself? Really see yourself? Most times, it’s in passing and just looking at only one aspect of your body. (your hair, your face) Ignoring the rest of you.
This activation avails you to be able to see each of your body parts individually and as a whole. To be able to love each of these parts, forgiveness to the parts you’ve shamed / hated on all these years as well as being in your body.
Week 4: Truly See Yourself
How many times do you pass yourself over? Seeing others in a beautiful light and not yourself? Negate people who compliment you or Push it back onto them?
This activation will allow your eyes, heart, mind to be in synchronicity with each other. To allow the beauty that is You to be seen and felt through your eyes, mind and heart.
Month 3
SELF AWARENESS
Week 5: What Makes You Happy?
This one speaks for itself…yet how many times that you speak up about what makes you happy, it gets shut down, poo pooed, not possible, shouldn’t do it, etc?
This Activation encompasses everything that you have ever dreamt, felt, thought of that came through for you to do, be, see that would have made you happy in the past, present and the future…to make it possible for you to achieve now. To have an inner knowing that this is truly what will make you smile, bubble up in joy, even euphoric and to be able to have the strength to follow through with it regardless of what others have to say.
Week 6: Choosing from the Heart
When was the last time you had a true “Choice”? A choice that you made without feeling iffy about? A choice that you made without having to go to others to see what they had to say about it?
This activation session will assist in being able to make choices that are being made in connection with your heart and not having to go to others for their approval. Following the heart of true desires. Fine tuning your inner knowingness.
Month 4
AUTHENTICALLY ALIGNED YOU
Week 7: Self-Care
Self care gets confused with getting a massage / manicures / pedicures. Yes, that’s body care…Self Care is feeling your body…seeing what it needs. Like, taking a nap, giving yourself a hug, self soothing (rubbing your arms), taking a hike in nature, submerging yourself in a lake / ocean, lighting a candle in honor of you, seeing what you are needing emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually. Checking in with yourself and really tapping into what you need and giving it to yourself.
This session is a deep dive into you. Activation around this will allow yourself to give yourself permission to care and nurture yourself…the strength to really see what you need, and to put yourself and your care first.
Week 8: Integration
As the week title implies, Integration. Bringing these 7 weeks together into the culmination of who you are now after these activations. Where you are going. And What you will be choosing to do?
You’re stepping into Being.
Frequently asked questions
What are the specifics of this program?
We will meet the 1st and 3rd week of the month, to be scheduled by you on which day of the week works within your schedule.
Each session is 90 minutes in length over zoom. The zoom link will be given once you schedule the day and time.
These sessions will build upon the last, so scheduling all eight dates over the 4 month period is key. This is the beginning of you taking a stand for yourself.
There will be a 30 minute check in call during the 2nd and 4th week of the month. (These are on the off weeks that we don’t meet)
There will be a “gift” box sent to you once you fill out the forms and pay for the sessions. The gift box contains a salt or sugar scrub along with a crystal that is chosen to assist you in your evolution. I will need your mailing address to ship these to you. All of these will come in 1 box with a small package that has each week labeled clearly.
2 – Sacred Rage Journey Sessions are available for you to schedule. These are an added bonus. This is a $570.00 value that is included. These sessions release the dormant, latent, suppressed anger that you may be holding on to. Here is the link to read about the sessions…
When you are ready to schedule I will send you a special link to register for it. Recommended to use during the 2nd and 3rd month.
What will I experience each session?
These sessions will bring you ever closer to yourself. Distinguishing what it is that lights you up, what brings you joy, releasing some of the pain / trauma of past situations, tools to use to assist you as you move forward in your life, to come out the other side “being” your true authentic self.
What do I have to do?
There will be tears shed, laughter, fun, ah ha moments, deep reflection, journaling, quiet, and communion with self.
Be in communication with me when you are feeling lost, if and when things are brought to the surface, bouts of tears.
Journal everyday and self care is key. Lots of rest.
Is it safe?
If something is too much, you may say you want to stop; slow down or even put the topic discussed on the back burner and revisit it when you are ready.
I’m here to assist you to push through your blocks, assist you in pulling the masks / hats off, to come out the other side of realization of your authentic, sovereign self. It won’t be easy. Simple yes. I’ll be here every step of the way. Shoulder to shoulder, heart to heart.
Payment Options
Please click your choice of payment plans below. You will be led to complete a short application. Upon submission of your application, you will receive an email with a link to make your payment, sign our contract and schedule your first Art of Becoming Session.
$3456.00
$3556.00 (4 Payments of $889)
Not sure and would like to book a call to see if the Art of Becoming Program is a good fit for you?
What others are saying about the Art of Becoming
“So grateful to you, Deborah, for holding space and facilitating our sacred circle. It truly carried me through a difficult time, and I came out truly rebirthed. There is so much beauty in being witnessed and seen, and you created this beautiful safe space for us to do just that. I can’t wait to see what you do next. Much love 💖”
– A.L.
“Deborah has a unique style of calming any painful situation and guiding you through compassion to see your true self and bring light to the situation. From the first time I started meeting with her I have been moved by her deep authenticity. With her Divine Mother energy she brings clarity on any matter and uplifts my spirit every time.”
– H.T.
“Thank you, Deborah, for such wonderful experiences. You created a beautiful container. Being witnessed and held by you has been beautiful and especially healing of my own sister wounds.”
– C.D.
“Thank you for all of your leadership and gathering skills. Appreciate all of the love and support you have put forward for this group. Xx”
– K.D.B